Kayla Cadona, a transformational coach and inspirational figure, and one of the agents of ‘Selling The OC’, Netflix series, opens up about her personal journey from hitting rock bottom to finding self-acceptance and embracing personal growth in a recent episode of Speak Life with guest host, Katana Natasha of K&Co. Media.
Kayla opens up about her tumultuous upbringing, recounting the constant upheaval she experienced between two households. She reveals the heartbreaking reality of learning how to lie and cope with suppressed emotions at a young age. Balancing between protecting her older sister and dealing with conflict with her mother, Kayla learned to navigate a world filled with turmoil and uncertainty.
Growing up, Kayla’s childhood was marked by constant transitions and challenges that forced her to develop a survival instinct beyond her years. Moving back and forth between two households, she had to adapt to different rules and expectations, never truly feeling at home in either place. This constant instability took its toll on her, but she carried on, determined to find her way.
As Kayla entered high school, she began to find moments of freedom and joy in her life. It was during this time that she started to explore her passions, embracing her individuality and finding solace in activities like dancing. However, just as things were looking up, she faced an unexpected obstacle that would change the course of her life forever.
At the age of 17, Kayla found herself pregnant. The news came as a shock, and she was faced with a difficult decision. Her parents, devout Christians, presented her with an ultimatum – find an adoptive family for the baby or leave home with the child. Despite the immense pressure and fear, Kayla made the courageous choice to keep her son and face the uncertain road ahead.
The decision to keep her son came with a heavy price. Kayla’s parents, unable to accept her choice, signed her off to a shelter, separating her from her family and leaving her feeling isolated and abandoned. The experience was deeply traumatic, as she grappled with the sudden loss of her support system and the emotional turmoil of being separated from her loved ones.
Kayla’s transformation began with a realization that something needed to change in her life. She discovered that she had to stop taking things personally and grow from challenging experiences. It was during a period of desperation that she hit rock bottom, prompting her to seek a new path.
As Kayla embarked on her speaking career, sharing her story on bigger stages, she realized the power of her message. With the ability to connect with audiences and inspire change, she embraced the opportunity to become a keynote speaker, further extending her reach and influence.
But how did Kayla end up in the world of luxury real estate? It was not a path she had envisioned for herself initially. After spending ten years in the beauty industry as a cosmetologist and even venturing into barbering, she felt the need for something more. As a single mother, she desired financial stability and personal fulfillment beyond what her current career could offer.
It was through her high-end hair clientele, consisting of doctors, lawyers, and real estate investors, that Kayla stumbled upon the idea of exploring a career in real estate. Initially skeptical, she eventually took the leap and obtained her real estate license. Little did she know, this decision would set her on a transformative path toward a fulfilling career.
Kayla’s natural talent for building relationships and connecting with people became evident as she delved deeper into the real estate world. She realized that real estate was not just about buying and selling properties; it was about transforming lives. Even during her time as a hairstylist, she found herself playing the role of a therapist, listening to her clients’ stories and guiding them through challenging times. This experience ignited a passion within her to make a difference in people’s lives on a larger scale.
But Kayla’s journey doesn’t end there. As fate would have it, she was discovered on Instagram by the creators of a hit reality show called “Selling the OC.” Initially dismissing the message as spam, she soon realized the incredible opportunity that awaited her. Through the show, Kayla has the chance to showcase her skills on a global stage, inspiring others to pursue their dreams fearlessly.
Kayla’s journey demonstrates that surrendering and embracing personal growth does not necessarily require hitting rock bottom. It can happen at any stage of life when we feel there is something more we are meant to experience and achieve. It is a reminder that personal growth is an ongoing process, no matter the circumstances.
Kayla emphasizes the significance of seeking therapy, an aspect of her journey that she initially resisted due to societal stigmas. However, she now recognizes that therapy is a valuable tool for personal growth and mental well-being. She encourages others to embrace therapy as a means of self-discovery and healing.
Kayla Cadona’s journey from teenage pregnancy to self-discovery serves as an inspiring example of how personal growth can lead to profound transformation. Through isolation, therapy, surrounding oneself with positive influences, and surrendering to a higher power, she discovered the path to her true self. Her story reminds us that change is possible at any stage of life and that by embracing personal growth, we can find fulfillment and embrace our true potential.
Watch the full episode of Speak Life below:
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About the podcast
Speak Life is a flagship podcast of Praise Hits. The podcast seeks to speak life to every listener. They believe that the stories of their guests have the power to transform lives and help others find hope in the midst of challenging circumstances. Each guests share stories of how their faith has helped them navigate the ups and downs of life, find peace in chaos, and discover purpose and meaning. Speak Life believes that through sharing our experiences, we can help others find the strength to overcome their struggles and to be empowered to live meaningful lives.
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